What a 10-year-old boy said about long haul flight
Our family’s longest flight to date was a trip to Jakarta, Indonesia, where we visited relatives.
Our itinerary typically looked like this: we flew from Dallas to Tokyo, Japan, which took about 13 to 14 hours. After a layover of 1 hour and 45 minutes, we continued to Jakarta for another 8-hour flight.
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The return journey from Jakarta to Dallas was the same route but slightly quicker. The flight from Jakarta to Tokyo was 10 minutes faster, while the leg from Tokyo to Dallas was 1 hour and 15 minutes faster. This included a layover of 3 hours and 15 minutes in Japan.
Sometimes, we flew to Hong Kong, which added 2 to 3 hours to our travel time, but it was a shorter route from Hong Kong to Jakarta.
Other times, we traveled to Los Angeles or San Francisco first, with a layover in either Tokyo or Taipei.
It was a long flight, right? And we flew economy class, where we had to pass Business or First Class when we entered and left the plane. Torture! Haha.
Our son said it was unfair because their seats were much wider, and there was a spacious space between them. And they could lie down flat when they wanted to sleep. I said it was fair because they paid more than double to sit there.
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Next is my Q&A with our 10-year-old about his long-haul flight experience. It was not the first time for him, but it was the first time that he could really experience and talk about it from his heart.
What a 10-year-old boy said about a long-haul flight
Me: What do you think about the long-haul flight?
Son: It was a good way to get some sleep.
Me: What did you like best about the long-haul flight?
Son: Sleeping.
Me: What else did you like about it?
Son: Watching lots of movies. We have an individual TV screen on each seat. So, everyone got to watch their own movies.
Our son watched movies and played games a lot on this trip. I had to remind him to get some sleep, and he ended up taking it for a long time.
Looking back, we were fortunate with his habit on the plane. The first time he flew was when he was 7 months old. He cried a little when we were halfway to Los Angeles from Dallas. After that, he never cried again. At all. Even when we flew to Indonesia two months after that.
As a toddler, he preferred to read, play with his toys, or sleep. He didn’t want to watch movies or play games.
It’s the same when he gets older: He reads, plays with his toys, or sleeps.
He started watching movies and playing games on this last trip.
Me: What did you don’t like about it?
Son: The food. It’s blah to most of it. (Note: our son is a very picky eater.)
Me: What did you bring to keep you from boredom?
Son: Food, books, neck pillow.
Yeah. We brought lots of Saltine crackers and fish crackers with us.
During one of the visits, he liked to eat this type of sweet bread. So I packed enough for him to snack on between Jakarta and the U.S. Well, once we took off from the airport, he didn’t want to eat that bread anymore.
Fortunately, he still ate the dinner roll that came with the food.
Me: What do you think about the aircrew?
Son: Quite good.
Me: What do you think about the lavatory?
Son: It will be better if it’s much bigger. There’s not enough space.
Me: What did you do during the layover?
Son: Sleep.
Me: What do you think about jet lag?
Son: Confusing.
Me: Last question. Do you want to do another long-haul flight in the future?
Son: Maybe… Just to Indonesia… I might want to go to the UK, though. (Of course, to see his favorite YouTuber!)
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So funny and cute… Thank you for the inspiration… I will start documenting what my kids say in every trip coz they are so clever and funny:)
It will be a memorable one for all of you!
This is such a cute post. I am a teacher of 4 and 5 year olds and always think i could write a book about all the things they say. And i totally agree, long plane journeys are the best for sleeping!
Thank you! It must be fun and amazing to hear what your student said though you wish you wouldn’t hear some of them. 😉
I think I didn’t have a choice since all of my family live in Indonesia. I even took him by myself 2 or 3 times when he was between 2-5 years old. Eeekk!!
The flying time was pretty brutal for your trip. I am done after a 14 hours trip. It is just hard on the body. I envy your son since he was able to sleep. I cannot sleep on planes and that makes things very difficult for me. Overall, I think you son handled the situation well (and with a good mood). Bravo for him!
The individual tv with movies he could pick and games he could play really helped him a lot. And, yes… Asia is really far from the U.S. It’s no wonder not too many American traveling to Asia because of the distance.
He’s not wrong. Long flights are fantastic for sleeping and watching films. And I bet you’re glad he did some sleeping! I disagree about the food though. Love airplane food.
Do you love airplane food? Well, I hope he will change his mind about it in the future. At least he will eat more. I personally think it depends on the airlines.
I love hearing about traveling from a kids perspective.
When you travel with kids, they’re the important party, right?